Let's get started
We'll need a little context before
we look through the messages.
This helps us find the moments that actually sound like your person — not just the ones that sound important. Everything you share here stays private and is deleted after your keepsake is generated.
It only takes a few minutes. Nothing here needs to be perfect.
Your name
So we know who to send your keepsake to.
Your email address
We'll use this to send you your keepsake. Nothing else.
Who is this person to you?
This helps us understand the relationship context.
My mother
My father
My partner
My sibling
My grandparent
My best friend
Someone else
What's their name?
Their real name, or whatever feels right.
Are they still with you?
This helps us get the tone right throughout the keepsake.
Yes, they're still here
No, they've passed
What did you call each other?
Nicknames, pet names — whatever you used in messages with each other.
What languages did you message in?
Select all that apply. We preserve the original language exactly — typos, code-switching, invented words and all.
English
Hindi
Hinglish
Spanish
Punjabi
Urdu
Bengali
Tamil
Telugu
Gujarati
Marathi
Arabic
Mandarin
Tagalog
Other
Roughly how long did you message each other?
Just rough timing — it helps us understand the archive.
Less than a year
1–3 years
3–5 years
5–10 years
10+ years
Names come up a lot in messages. Knowing who's who helps us get relationships right — like whether "Arushi" is a daughter or a cousin.
Key people in the messages
List a few people who come up often in messages. Just names and who they are — doesn't need to be everyone.
Is there anything specific you're hoping to see?
Write freely — anything you remember, anything you're hoping to find. We'll use this to guide what we surface.
Don't worry if you're not sure — that's part of why we're here. We'll also surface things you may have forgotten.
Is there anything you'd rather we skip?
Time periods, topics, or anything that feels too private or too painful. We'll skip it entirely.
Completely optional. If you leave this blank, we'll include everything.
Here's what you've shared
Take a quick look — you can always go back and change anything.
Ready to submit
We'll review your answers and get back to you within a few days with next steps — including a secure link to share your archive.
Your archive will be processed privately and deleted once your keepsake is ready. Nothing is stored. We never train on your data.
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Thank you.
We'll be in touch within a few days. The next step will be sharing your message archive through a secure link we send you — nothing is uploaded until then.
Questions? Reach us at hello@stillsaid.com